8 Rules For Safety
- Before I go anywhere, I always check first with my parent or the person in charge. I tell them where I am going, how I will get there, who will be going with me, and when I'll be back.
- I check first for permission from my parents before getting into a car or leaving with anyone — even someone I know. I check first before changing plans or accepting money, gifts, or drugs without my parents' knowledge.
- It is safer for me to be with other people when going places or playing outside. I always use the "buddy system."
- I say "NO" if someone tries to touch me in ways that make me feel frightened, uncomfortable, or confused. Then, I tell a grown-up I trust what happened.
- I know it is not my fault if someone touches me in a way that is not OK. I don't have to keep secrets about those touches.
- I trust my feelings and talk to grown-ups about problems that are too big for me to handle on my own. A lot of people care about me and will listen and believe me. I am not alone.
- It is never too late to ask for help. I will keep asking until I get the help I need.
- I am a special person, and I deserve to feel safe.
My Rules Are
- Check first.
- Use the "buddy system."
- Say "NO," then Go and Tell.
- Listen to my feelings, and talk with grown-ups I trust about my problems and concerns.
My Home Alone Safety Rules
- I check in with a neighbor, relative, or my parents when I get home from school — everyday and by a certain time.
- I always lock the doors of my home.
- I never answer the door unless I see it is someone my parents have told me will be coming over.
- When I answer the phone, I act like my parents are home, and I ask to take a message because they are both busy.
- I never use the oven or any other appliance unless my parents have given me permission.
- If someone tries to get in my house, or if there's another emergency, I know to call 911. I remain calm and speak slowly, clearly, and loudly. I give my full name, address, explain my emergency, and do as they instruct me.
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My 8 Rules For Safety is reprinted with permission from the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC). Copyright © 1990 NCMEC. All rights reserved.